I hear from thousands of people
every week and many are wondering why so many relationships are ending right
now, which includes those between friends, partners, spouses, and families.
Someone wrote ‘Families are fracturing now'; another wrote ‘All of my friends
are getting a divorce’ and asked “Are we
heading into a time when we won’t have any more relationships?” Not at all. In
fact, we are clearing the way so we can have soul-based instead of karma-based
relationships. And although not all relationships are ending, many are coming
up for review and they will either move forward in a very strong way, or they
will end with closure and no more karma.
There was a time when honoring
family ties was unquestionable and marriage lasted until death, no matter what
happened behind closed doors. Times have changed and that’s good because some
families and marriages are truly horrific. But these ties run deep, much deeper
than we realize because they are based on karma and soul contracts, healing
purposes, promises, and obligations that we have honored for many lifetimes.
With the end of karma, which is one of the purposes and potentials of this
lifetime, any relationship that is karma-based is now up for review and it can
be released or start with a new energetic connection.
As much as we would all love to
have the perfect family or marriage, very few people do but that depends on how
you define ‘perfect’. I think we all want relationships with people who are
loving, and who treat us with kindness and respect. Despite what we believe,
the real purpose of family is to bring a soul group together in a way that
encourages and facilitates healing, by creating such a powerful connection that
healing must occur. With family we have many expectations of behavior and while
everyone can choose to be kind, honest, and loving, some people don’t choose to
do that. Then, because we have such strong expectations of what ‘family’ should
be and do, that when they don’t do those things we believe there’s something
wrong with us or that it’s our job to fix or heal them.
The same thing holds true for
marriages or long term relationships of any kind, including relationships with
our children (they have karma with us too). Many of our expectations are based
on what we believe, based on the type of connection, rather than understanding
the healing nature of karmic cycles. For example, because they’re my family
they are supposed to be nice to me and love me. Or, because it’s my spouse I
expect them to be loving, considerate, and faithful. Or friends are supposed to
be considerate and supportive. Or I am supposed to have a loving, supportive,
respectful, and connected relationship with my children (this is one of the
tough ones and breakups are occurring between parents and children too).
But what brought us together was
a shared karmic path and healing purpose, not a promise of ‘happily ever after’
with them. This doesn’t mean that all
family ties and marriages need to end now. Rather, we have an opportunity to
step away from the karma and set new standards of connection for ourselves. If
we want to have relationships that are joyful, loving, respectful, kind, and
fulfilling, we need to be connected with people who can embody those energies
and not expect that because we have expectations of those behaviors from
certain people based on a label that is attached to a connection.
It only takes one person’s
willingness to move out of karma to end it and to create a new path for that
relationship. If the other people involve agree, then a new paradigm is created
and we can have ‘happily ever after’ with them. If not, then we get closure and
release, and can set our sights on attracting people who can connect with us at
the level we want. Wherever you identify
a gap in your life (from last week’s message which you can read here), there is
an opportunity for review, to set a new energy standard for that connection so
it can be released or renewed at a new level.
We are approaching the final
Uranus/Pluto square in March 2015 and, more importantly, the closure of a very
long cycle for all of humanity, marked by March’s new and full moons, at 0 and
29.57 Pisces. This is the alpha and the omega, the beginning and the end. We
are the empowerment of the new age, of heaven on earth, of the new earth
paradigms. It’s what we focus on now and the review and closure we do that will
usher us into new paradigms of being and into relationships with higher
frequency energy based soul families instead of karma based human families, and
with partners who can join us in our wholeness instead of our healing, and who
can love, honor, and respect us because they share our desire for those
energies and are connected to us in that way.
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